Tag: Divorce

New Parenting Law In Florida

In July 2023 a new parenting law went into effect in Florida for divorce and paternity cases.  The law changes several significant aspects of what is commonly referred to as custody of minor children in Florida.  The most significant change is that the law now provides that there is a rebuttable presumption that equal time-sharing of a minor child is in the best interest of the minor child.  To rebut this presumption, a parent must prove that equal timesharing is not in the best interest of the child.  Historically, there was no presumption in favor of any specific timesharing plan and each family was considered individually as to what plan would be best for the children.  Under this new law, the court will begin with a presumption that the children should spend equal time with each parent and develop a plan accordingly unless it is proven not to be in the child’s best interest.  How the equal timesharing plan is developed is still a consideration that must be resolved.  Some families choose a rotating-week schedule (e.g. exchanging the children each Friday) while other families may be better suited to a divided week schedule (e.g. Mom Monday and Tuesday, Dad Wednesday and Thursday, and rotating Friday through Sunday).  The specifics of each plan will depend upon the work schedules of the parents, the division of parenting responsibilities, and many other factors. 

In addition, the new law addresses the situation where the parents had a long-distance parenting plan because one parent lived more than 50 miles away but then the “away” parent moved back to within the 50-mile radius.  In such a situation, the law now provides that this will be considered a substantial change in circumstances for the modification of the parent plan.  Historically, a parent who moved back to the area where the children lived would not have a basis to modify the plan and may be resigned to minimal time with the children even though they lived nearby.  Now, the law allows for a modification of the parent plan to have more consistent contact with the children for each parent. 

Working out a co-parenting plan is often one of the more difficult issues to be addressed for any family going through transition.  If you need help developing your plan, please contact our office for coaching or mediation. 

2023 Case Law Update

Once again I was invited to present the Annual Case Law Update to this years Family Court Professional Coalition (FCPC) Annual Conference. It is my great pleasure to work with this organization and serve on their Board of Directors in order to help improve the Family Court system in my local area. It is also an annual highlight to present this update of all legal cases involving family law decided in the last year from the Florida appellate courts. While I do not litigate, it remains important to stay up to date on the current law in order to assist my clients in reaching the best resolution to their cases. To view the update click here.

Can I get Custody of Fido

I am often asked if my client can get custody of their favorite pet. Another common question is if the court can award visitation of their cat or dog. Unfortunately, in Florida, the answer to both of these questions is no. Pets are treated as property in Florida and most states, so one party is awarded ownership of the pets. This is painful for many people who consider their dog or cat a part of the family. I get it. I have a wonderful dog and a brand new cat that I already love dearly.

Beginning January 1, 2019 there are three states that now treat animals as more than property and allow the court to consider the best interest of the pet in awarding them to a party in a divorce. California has now joined Alaska and Illinois in providing custody of the pets. There are exceptions for service animals (they will remain with the person who requires them). These are new laws and there is not a lot of case law applying them.

We don’t know if this is a new trend that will take off in Florida or other states. We also don’t know if this will increase litigation in divorce cases as pet owners spend more time and money to establish the best interest of the pets.

What we do know is that in a Collaborative Divorce, we can already consider the pet as something more than property and help the family develop a plan that will share the pet.

HOW MUCH WILL MY DIVORCE COST?

You have options on how to finalize your divorce.  And the costs will depend on the method you select.  The Court fee for filing a divorce is approximately $395 and there is an additional recording fee depending on the county where the case is filed.

DO IT YOURSELF DIVORCE

You can download the Florida Supreme Court forms for free, fill them in with your spouse and file them yourselves and then proceed through the court process.   The only cost is the filing fee.  However, you must consider the length of time this will take you to prepare the forms without assistance and to process the forms through the court process which may take many months.

PARALEGAL DIVORCE

There are paralegal services that will help you fill in the Florida Supreme Court forms.  These services cannot prepare any documents other than the standard forms and cannot offer any legal advice.  They also cannot file the case for you and obtain the Final Judgment on your behalf.  The costs for the assistance to prepare the forms is approximately $400 to $800.

FLAT FEE DIVORCE

My office can assist you in preparing all documents necessary to obtain a final judgment of dissolution.  This includes a Marital Settlement Agreement drafted by the attorney and a Parenting Plan if necessary also prepared by the attorney.  In addition, there are a number of pleadings that must be presented to the court will be prepared and presented to the Judge.  We will then file the final documents necessary to obtain the Final Judgment on your behalf.  In many cases this process can be completed in less than a month.  The cost of this services is $2,000 for a divorce without children and $2,500 for a divorce with minor children.

MEDIATED DIVORCE

I am also a Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator and can assist you and your spouse to negotiate the terms of a Marital Settlement Agreement and Parenting Plan if you and your spouse are struggling with the terms.  As the mediator I cannot file the final documents but can assist you through the process or refer you to an attorney to complete the process.  The cost of this service is $350 per hour but the final cost will depend upon the number of issues to be addressed and the number of meetings necessary to resolve the issues.  Each meeting last approximately two hours and normally there are on average between three to five meetings.

COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE

As an attorney with over twenty years of experience representing parties in divorce and paternity, I can represent you in a collaborative divorce process when there are more difficult issues to be decided.  My fees for this representation of a party in a collaborative divorce is $400 per hour.  This process also includes a neutral financial professional, a neutral facilitator and a collaborative attorney for your spouse.  There are times when I am also selected as the neutral facilitator in the collaborative process and I charge $250 per hour for these services.  While this process is certainly more expensive than the options above, it is much less expensive than the average fully litigated divorce.  A comparison of the Collaborative Process for a case with minor children to a fully litigated divorce can be found here.

A LITIGATED DIVORCE

My office does not represent clients in this process.  I stopped handling litigated divorces in 2012 after many years of assisting clients through this process.  Part of the reason for this is the extreme costs involved which I did not find in my client’s best interest.  Some cases require litigation to resolve the issues, but I strongly advise clients to consider if this is necessary and the costs involved. A comparison of the costs of a Collaborative Divorce and a Litigated Divorce can be found here.

Family Law Case Filings on the Rise in 2015

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Karen E. Rushing, Clerk of Court and County Comptroller, Sarasota County, Florida

Family Court Filings increased by 4 percent in 2015 in Sarasota County.

My local Attorney Bar Newspaper for Sarasota County, The Docket, had an article from our Clerk of Court, Karen E. Rushing.  She provided a three-year review of cases filed in her jurisdiction.  According to her statistics, many areas of case filings were down over the past three-year period.  However, the area of Family Law had a four percent increase in filings; from 3,954 in 2014 to 4,110 in 2015.  (The Docket, February 2016, Karen E. Rushing)

I am conducting a survey of Collaborative Law Cases in our area presently, and so far I am aware of at least 40 cases handled in a collaborative manner last year.  While I am very happy to see that this number of families have been helped by this team approach to family law, I am extremely sad to see that this is still less than one percent of the total number of filings.  This means that 99% of the families going through difficult transitions of divorce, post-divorce and paternity issues are not being assisted with a collaborative team approach to resolving their case.

I would love to see these numbers reversed.  I know that a few people need to resort to the courts to resolve differences of opinion about their divorce or paternity cases.  These people may have families that suffer from domestic violence or such severe disagreements that the only way to resolve the case is by having the intervention of a Judge to decide the case.  Yet I also know that the vast majority of cases would be better served by the guidance of collaboratively trained attorneys, financial and mental health professionals to find solutions that best suit their family.

If you would like to learn more about how your family can avoid the costs, time delays, anxiety and conflict of litigation please contact my office to learn more about the Collaborative Law Process and how it can help you and your family.  Visit my Website for more information: www.odayresolutions.com

The Collaborative Process: Putting the Best Interest of Children First

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“Let us put our minds together and see what life we can make for our children.”

          Sitting Bull

               As parents we have a responsibility to put the needs of our children first.  This means shielding children from the anxiety and stress of adult confrontation such as divorce and paternity actions.  It also means ensuring that the children have the love and support from their parents and family.  This is why parents facing the prospects of divorce or paternity actions should consider a collaborative process.

               In the collaborative legal process the parties are assisted by a team of professionals all committed to assisting them to reach a resolution to their family issues without litigation.  The focal point of the team of professionals is the Mental Health Professional (MHP) who is available to work with the parents to develop a child focused parenting plan that includes a timesharing schedule that will work for the family.    The MHP also works with the parents to address struggles the children may be experiencing in transitioning to two households.  As important, the MHP can assist the parents in learning the new skills necessary to co-parent the children when living apart.

               The collaborative process also allows the parties to develop a family financial support structure that is realistic.  Using the guidance of the Neutral Financial Professional, the parties consider all aspects of the family’s financial priorities including the payment of private school tuition, tutors, extra-curricular activities, college financing and other needs of the children.   These issues are often not addressed in the traditional litigated divorce due to the legal constraints of the laws in various states that do not provide for consideration of such expenses.  It is axiomatic that two households cannot live at the same level of spending that it costs to support only one household.  However the financial neutral can help the parties to develop budgets that will best work within their income levels.

               Finally, the team of professionals approach prevents the escalation of the conflict that is often present in the traditional divorce context.  The parties, their attorneys and the neutral professionals work together to identify the priorities of the family and brainstorm ways to meet their needs.  The team is never focused on a win-lose proposition but rather looking for ways to overcome the problems faced by the family going through transition.  The MHP, as the facilitator of the process, keeps the team focused on the issues and ensures that the process moves forward.  This allows the family to develop a settlement in a shorter time and at less cost than the traditional divorce process.

               Many studies have shown that it is not the fact of a divorce that causes anxiety and disruption in a child’s life but rather the conflict that exists between the parents.  The collaborative process reduces this conflict and focuses the parents on meeting the needs of the child.

POST DIVORCE CHECKLIST

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POST DIVORCE CHECKLIST

Too often when a divorce is completed the parties are handed a Final Judgment of Dissolution and a copy of their Marital Settlement Agreement and nothing more.  After many months of being under the care of professional counsel, financial advisers, mediators and mental health experts, the parties suddenly are left on their own to move on with their lives.  In order to help with the transition, here is a list of items that should be considered after the divorce is final.  For my professional colleagues, please print out the list from the link above and hand out to your clients.  If you have other items that should be included on the list, please let me know and I will update on this site.

The first thing you should do at the conclusion of your divorce process is to obtain several Certified Copies of the Final Judgment.  Review all of the paperwork carefully with your counsel to ensure you understand what you must complete under the Settlement Agreement and / or Final Judgment.  While the list below is comprehensive, there may be additional items required in your decree that are not listed below.

Personal Care

  • If you are feeling a sense of loss, grief or depression seek professional assistance or a support group to take care of yourself
  • Take some time for a little personal self-care.  Have a massage, visit a spa (yes even the guys enjoy this), take a short vacation or weekend break.

Financial Accounts

  • Close all joint checking & savings accounts as soon as all outstanding checks and automatic payments have cleared the bank
  • Open new checking & savings accounts
  • Update automatic payments taken from your accounts with new account information
  • Change named beneficiaries of retirement accounts & life insurance policies
  • Create new Estate Plan (Will, Trust, Health Care Surrogate, Living Will & Power of Attorney)
  • Ensure all prior Powers’ of Attorney are revoked in writing
  • If Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is required by Final Judgment, follow-up with Plan Administrator to ensure they are notified of the divorce and the QDRO is completed
  • If there is to be a transfer of IRA funds the receiving spouse must open a qualified IRA to receive the funds and the distributing spouse must notify the financial institution to initiate the transfer
  • Close all joint credit card accounts
  • Change all passwords for online account access
  • Request a final bill from your legal counsel and ensure it is paid
  • Obtain a copy of your credit report 30 days after the final judgment to ensure that all joint accounts have been closed
  • Close joint safe-deposit boxes & open new one in individual name

Insurance

  • Secure COBRA or other health insurance / notify employer of divorce if health insurance provided through employer
  • Update auto, home owner & flood insurance records / secure new insurance
  • Change beneficiaries on all life insurance, disability or other insurance policies

PROPERTY & ASSET RECORDS

  • Sign documents to retitle cars, campers, boats, planes and other vehicles into individual names and file new title with DMV or other agency
  • Record deeds transferring title to real property
  • Notify utility companies if new name on account
  • Ensure any funds held in escrow are transferred or returned (security deposits on rental property, utility deposits)
  • Notify the Post Office of change of address and mail forwarding
  • Arrange for the transfer of any personal property that must be distributed as soon as possible

PARENTING ISSUES

  • Update school records with name and address of both parents
  • Update medical records with name and address of both parents
  • Sign up for Our Family Wizard (http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/ofw/) or other program to manage parenting contact, children’s schedules, medical re-imbursement payments, etc.
  • Set up direct deposit or Income Withholding Order for child support

NAME CHANGE

  • Update Social Security Administration
  • Update driver’s license & auto registration with DMV
  • Update bank  and credit card records
  • Update employment records
  • Update insurance records (health, life, disability, auto, homeowners)
  • Update IRS records
  • Professional licenses
  • Update Passport

TAXES

  • Obtain IRS Publication 504, “Divorced or Separated Individuals” for information about filing status, exemptions, alimony, QDROs, etc.
  • Change your tax withholding allowances with your employer
  • Use the IRS withholding calculator to determine your new withholdings (http://www.irs.gov/Individuals/IRS-Withholding-Calculator)
  • If you are receiving alimony or self-employed determine if estimated quarterly payments will be necessary.
  • Execute IRS form 8332, Transfer of Dependency Exemption, if required under terms of the Settlement Agreement / Final Judgment

 

Sharon O’Day, Esq., O’Day Resolutions, 2014

Florida Board Certified in Marital & Family Law, Supreme Court Certified Family & Civil Mediator

Collaborative Attorney